eyecontactship
Sep 1518 min read
Approach-Avoidance Conflict in Attraction: Why You Want Someone and Still Pull Away
You like someone. You want to talk to them. You want them to notice you. You might even catch yourself looking across the room to see where they are. And then they look back. Suddenly, you look away. You avoid walking past them. You take longer to reply. You act completely normal when you are anything but normal. You may even convince yourself that you are better off staying away. This can feel contradictory. If you are attracted to someone, shouldn't you naturally want to ge
